nixnuance
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I'm not opposed to a fun roll in the hay as long as we're both being very honest about what it is - and that's what we both want. But I know ultimately what I'm looking for is going to require more time and effort than those encounters will provide.
Shared experiences over time - getting to know each other - emotionally - intellectually - physically - creatively - (and all the day to day sometimes tough or boring or difficult stuff - or silly -or whatever) - all that - all of it will hopefully lead to even deeper connections and mutual care and concern and love. Clear communication and understanding - and patience and forgiveness and positive cooperation while focused on mutually agreed upon goals (short to long term) with agreed upon destinations and understanding of the responsibilities required to get there. Two people working and living and loving together and looking forward with eagerness to meet the challenges ahead seems like the right idea. And, of course, lots and lots of laughing and fun.
However, sometimes we might have to take slightly different paths - and understandably so - but too often we see those times as 'bad' because we're not as close as we want to be all the time - and so on. But -as long as we continue facing ahead as planned and doing what is needed - it's all good. The problems, it seems to me, (the big nasty ones) often arise when one or both of us stop moving forward - and instead, stop and face the other in order to needlessly complain or to "point out flaws" - complaining and pointing out flaws and other negative stuff is part of life and common - but they can be 'handled' - usually - while still facing forward and working towards the mutual goals. If you or I are unable to deal with the bumps in the road without stopping every time and doing the blame thing or whatever it might be - well, that's when we know there's trouble. Finding flaws in others is really easy if that 's what you like to do. Nobody can stand up to real intense scrutiny over a long period of time. What's the point?
Being side by side facing the same direction with mutual goals and plans is a good start! That's where I'll find her - on a parallel path (kinda) to mine - and we end up 'walking' along together (mostly) - in time becoming best friends and soul mates and lovers...
I really don't think it's asking too much. But it does require putting yourself out there and being honest. So - I'm willing to consider just about anything, but what I'm looking for is my best friend intimate lover life long soul mate. (Hey - If you're gonna dream – might as well be big!)
Shared experiences over time - getting to know each other - emotionally - intellectually - physically - creatively - (and all the day to day sometimes tough or boring or difficult stuff - or silly -or whatever) - all that - all of it will hopefully lead to even deeper connections and mutual care and concern and love. Clear communication and understanding - and patience and forgiveness and positive cooperation while focused on mutually agreed upon goals (short to long term) with agreed upon destinations and understanding of the responsibilities required to get there. Two people working and living and loving together and looking forward with eagerness to meet the challenges ahead seems like the right idea. And, of course, lots and lots of laughing and fun.
However, sometimes we might have to take slightly different paths - and understandably so - but too often we see those times as 'bad' because we're not as close as we want to be all the time - and so on. But -as long as we continue facing ahead as planned and doing what is needed - it's all good. The problems, it seems to me, (the big nasty ones) often arise when one or both of us stop moving forward - and instead, stop and face the other in order to needlessly complain or to "point out flaws" - complaining and pointing out flaws and other negative stuff is part of life and common - but they can be 'handled' - usually - while still facing forward and working towards the mutual goals. If you or I are unable to deal with the bumps in the road without stopping every time and doing the blame thing or whatever it might be - well, that's when we know there's trouble. Finding flaws in others is really easy if that 's what you like to do. Nobody can stand up to real intense scrutiny over a long period of time. What's the point?
Being side by side facing the same direction with mutual goals and plans is a good start! That's where I'll find her - on a parallel path (kinda) to mine - and we end up 'walking' along together (mostly) - in time becoming best friends and soul mates and lovers...
I really don't think it's asking too much. But it does require putting yourself out there and being honest. So - I'm willing to consider just about anything, but what I'm looking for is my best friend intimate lover life long soul mate. (Hey - If you're gonna dream – might as well be big!)
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