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FTMs - Trans Men - Genderqueer Forum   Testosterone and Sex Drive

FilthFiendFtM
Group Member Jun 17th 2016
Hey, I just found this group, I'm a trans dude in my early 30s, been on T almost 5 months, trying to get top surgery ASAP. I'm dying to meet someone in the New England area to play around with- female, male, couples, whatever; message me if you're in the area and looking to have some fun.

Anyway, the main reason I'm posting is actually related to the above paragraph- I'm wondering if anyone else has experienced an overwhelming spike in their sex drive from testosterone. If this is how cis men feel all the time, I feel bad for ever criticizing them for being horndogs, or obsessed with sex, or other judgmental opinions. I'm so fucking horny, pretty much constantly. Sometimes I feel like I'd do anything for a blowjob- I can't wait to feel what oral sex is like now that my junk is changing and my cock is growing in. I had a few frustrating weeks recently when I had a hard time jacking it, but I gradually relearned how to masturbate, and now cumming is easier than it's ever been in my life. Pre-T, there were times I'd spend 45 minutes or more trying to cum. Now, I find that I can simply decide I'm ready and blow my proverbial load as soon as I want. Cumming also feels a lot more satisfying.

Another big change I've noticed is that I feel more willing to fuck dudes. I'm still mainly straight (meaning into women), but sometimes gay guys seem more into fucking for the sake of fucking, raunch, BDSM, and all that good (i.e. perverted) shit. My sex drive is so completely off the charts, plus sometimes I feel like gay men are more open to being with trans men than straight women are, so I've expanded my search for partners to include gay and bi men.

Has anyone else experienced a shift in their sexuality and/or sex drive since starting T? Any tips on how to meet partners who are into trans men? Thanks!
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nolaftm1986
Group Member Jul 2nd 2016
Your crazy sex drive and new attraction to gay men is pretty normal in our community. There's actually several videos and discussions about it on Youtube. Search the keywords " transguy gay guy attraction". Google it even. Have all the fun exploring, but be extra safe. Even though we don't bleed anymore, we can still get pregnant. I'm pretty sure you've seen the L Word, right?
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FilthFiendFtM
Group Member Jul 19th 2016
Not for nothing I'm a straught male who has been wanting to fuck a trans-man for quite some time. The thought of sucking on that huge clit drives me insane with lust. Too bad I'm in Florida.

Don't flatter yourself, I would never allow a self-loathing faggot like you anywhere near my dick.
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FilthFiendFtM
Group Member Jul 19th 2016
Your crazy sex drive and new attraction to gay men is pretty normal in our community. There's actually several videos and discussions about it on Youtube. Search the keywords " transguy gay guy attraction". Google it even. Have all the fun exploring, but be extra safe. Even though we don't bleed anymore, we can still get pregnant. I'm pretty sure you've seen the L Word, right?

Thanks so much for replying! I'd always heard that you need to go off T for a couple months in order to get pregnant. I never watched The L Word; why do you ask?
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nolaftm1986
Group Member Jul 20th 2016
Your crazy sex drive and new attraction to gay men is pretty normal in our community. There's actually several videos and discussions about it on Youtube. Search the keywords " transguy gay guy attraction". Google it even. Have all the fun exploring, but be extra safe. Even though we don't bleed anymore, we can still get pregnant. I'm pretty sure you've seen the L Word, right?

Thanks so much for replying! I'd always heard that you need to go off T for a couple months in order to get pregnant. I never watched The L Word; why do you ask?

One of the characters is a FTM named Max. He became sexually attracted to a gay man during his transition and ended up getting pregnant.
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