Hello all :-) I'm a single 29 year old sexually submissive guy based in Ireland. I'm ultimately looking towards being in a real long term relationship with the right type of Lady (aged around 20-40)

A little about me.. I think I'm a pretty nice guy, sure I have my off days, I'm far from perfect, but then again who is? Positives I guess: I'm very genuine, honest, caring, love having a good laugh, open minded, quirky/random/funny, witty etc.

I'm into the following:

Obviously first off, Dominant (Mistress/Switch female) and Submissive (Slave male) role play.

I have a massive Shiny Clothing Fetish (Shiny Nylon Puffer Jackets, Shiny Wetlook Leggings, Rubber, Latex, PVC, Leather, catsuit, corsets, panties, boots etc.)

Cuckolding (minimal experience thus far)

Bondage (Handcuffs, Rope, Chains)

Body worship (kissing/licking all over and the scent of the body)

Humiliation (Queening/Facesitting, Rimming, Dirty Talk, Name Calling, Cum Cleaning, Golden Showers, Forced fart breathing/sniffing, Being used & abused etc.)

Biting and being bitten

Breath play/control (smothering)

Punishments (I'm not what you'd call a massive pain slut though, open to further training)

Using toys (vibrators, dildos, handcuffs, butt plugs, gags, whips, strap-ons, electrical play, pumps)

I am also curious about and would like to experience things like Chastity Devices, Scat, forced bisexuality and orgy/gang bang/group sex.. Etc. :-)

So yep, that's a bit about me..

So who exactly am I looking for? Well there's no perfect person out there.. I'm looking for a mix of things that leads to sizzling chemistry, real feelings and a proper connection like.. Conventional vanilla love with the BDSM/Kink twist.

Personality wise I'd be looking for a Lady that is really genuine, honest, loyal, caring and open minded. A proper partner first and foremost.. Who can accept the vanilla aspects of a real relationship, but, one who is also Dominant enough to really mark Her territory through Her training and control.

Anyway that's me, I'd love to hear from you if you think I might be your type and would like to get to know each other better. :-)

P.S. Unfortunately I cannot relocate outside of my area in Ireland, however, I would still be interested in getting to know the right Lady from outside of my area/country/region as long as she would be willing to eventually move to relocate here to Ireland with me.

Regards,

Brendan

Re: Scat fetish.
Had to chuckle at some of the wowser posts complaining about shit fetish, that didn't mention anything about extreme violence or abuse that actually, really is a problem out in the real world. (Well, I guess shit is also a problem, more in the sanitation/engineering field than sexuality)
I happen to find scenes of extreme abuse against women pretty disturbing, mostly because they lack originality, but also because of normal empathy. But I don't let it wreck my day just because others like the fantasy of it. So why is scat such a problem?
In my case scat is pretty polarising; I love some kinds and find other kinds rotten. I reckon an athletic young chick, like a gymnast, stretching into a squat, splits or pike; displaying the long strong sinews of her legs and the muscular pulsing of her pelvic floor and anus, is pretty hot. When she bears down with all the power in her abdomen to force a huge, hard brown log through the supple elastic grip of her asshole I can't look away. When she grunts with exertion and then relieved satisfaction, I feel her joy in my twitching cock. I feel her health and vitality. I'll even get off on the sub/dom fantasy of her pushing it directly into some male victim's gob, so he feels her superior strength in the unstoppable, structural-grade turd being driven driven into his most personal space like a stinky unwelcome guest. If she counters the gross and animal act by being sweet and feminine, perhaps in a pretty little dress or lingerie, perfect. Now that's anti-reality and nice IMO.

On the other hand - dirty scat. Where some group fat, old, ugly granny or grandpa's squirt sick yellow porridge out of thier bulbous hairy purple assholes that look like they belong in a pathology report. and crawl around in leather leashes licking it up of the floor that's crusted up with the leftovers of last week's session. I guess that's closer to reality, but I don't like it.
Scat is not Scat and the reasons for liking defy definition, so the complainers are a bit simple minded.

After finding out a friend was into some of the same porn fetishes as me, we both opened up about some things on the subject. After a few more talks and sharing of favorite video's and sites I decided to open up a bit more, rather then telling them about this kink I decided to show them.

So I put on a pink bra, with a white spaghetti string top flipped on the cam to share screen and reveal to my friend I like to cross dress on occasion. Initially silent for a moment they replied nice and sent me a Thumbs up emoji clearly a little at loss for words but ok with their friend suddenly growing a pair. Asking if they wanted to see more was a real adrenaline rush that was quickly subdued by a not right now reply. They still needed more time to solidify their thoughts. The call ended shortly there after, with plans to talk the next day.

The next day started off with me messaging I got a new set of clothes to complete the bottom half of the outfit from the previous day. Excited they got on the phone and asked what I got, I decided to show them again. Flipping on the cam today revealed a green bra with a different white spaghetti string top white, black pantyhose with a black leather skirt. I did a quick twirl asking for a response to which I got a thumbs up message, sensing they did not want to speak much I start shaking my hips and grabbing my breasts while making a statement of, tell me if you want me stop. Getting no reply I continued on doing a little dance, lifting my skirt slowly giving them a chance to say anything before I revealed my cute little white butt in see through black pantyhose. Getting no command to stop I wiggled it back forth a few times to which I heard a deep breath being taken; someone was getting excited. I began to slowly spin around with my skirt still lifted giving them a chance to stop me before they see my dick for the first time in our friendship. Fully turned around with my head clearly poking through these barely there pantyhose I took a deep breath as I slowly pulled down the front letting myself bust outta the constraints of womens clothes my dick sprung up like a diving board and pointed straight at the camera, another deep breath was heard but still no words. I debated my next move and decided to spin to the side to give my friend a sideways view to really take it all in. Giving my hips a couple shakes and thrusts I turned back towards the camera and grabbed my throbbing self, giving myself a couple quick jerks I expected the word stop to finally come through phone. Continuing on pleasuring myself for a moments more, I realize I'm getting just jerking and no longer doing any "performance" and am now just jerking with a friend watching I begin to get nervous and think I should stop. But then I here the tell-tale sounds of fap, fap coming through the phone I realize the awkwardness is not there and we are both enjoying our selves. Hearing those sounds coming from a friend, knowing those sounds was cause of what I was doing gave such a sense of pleasure I instantly felt the cum creeping up inside me ready to come out. Taking a deep breath I asked my friend if I could cum for them, getting a very quick and enthusiastic reply of yes. I became for the first time in my life, eager to please another man in a sexual way. Less then a minute later I got close to the cam and squirted a load all over, friend was happy and finished himself making for a heart pumping night of firsts.